Growing Your Business with Marketing, Week 18: Full stop

by the communicatrix on May 4, 2009

in work-life balance

This is Week 18 of a 52-week project/experiment in DIY marketing. Armed with nothing but a copy of the 2009 Grow Your Business Marketing Plan + Calendar and my bare wits, I’m applying the skills you need to grow a business in real time, day by day, and reporting on them week by week. I write a topline summary of the week’s theme, as I see it, for The Marketing Mix blog, and the full article here. You can follow along here every Monday. (Note: this week being a short entry, it’s just double-posted at each outlet.)

I sincerely hope, for everyone’s sake (and especially mine) that this is the last post I make to this series with this particular flavor.

The flavor of the week was Despair, a complex and unappetizing blend of illness, exhaustion and mental anguish—both over being ill and exhausted and being pulled from my work. (See? Cra-a-azy Virgo.) This, on top of last week (which was no party), did nothing to brighten my outlook about my marketing plan, my business or life in general. Outside of one highly productive day full of things I’d committed to and couldn’t renege on, I spent the entire week trying to dig my way out of a flare-up of Crohn’s disease; mostly, this meant getting ridiculous amounts of rest (10 – 12 hours per day of sleep) and eating whatever food I literally could stomach.

I even missed a day of blogging on my main site, communicatrix—something I don’t think I’ve done yet this year. I cancelled anything else non-essential, and rescheduled it for a later date.

There’s stuff to be learned even from a bad week like this, and here’s what I took away:

  • Store up for winter “Winter” being anything from illness to a crush of work you really want to take. I can’t believe that I’ve been blogging for four years and have nothing in the pipeline ready to go in case of emergencies, but there it is. That’s one of the main rules for a successful blog that my friend, Chris Guillebeau talks about in his fantastic free downloadable PDF, 279 Days to Overnight Success. No wonder his blog has been such a stunning success!
  • Find backup The great thing about partnering up is that there’s someone to pick up the slack for each other. I started co-hosting my monthly Biznik event here in L.A. with my friend, designer Heather Parlato, because I thought it would be fun for both, and be good for her to get more involved. As it turned out, it was great for me that she was involved: I was able to secure the venue and prep from the phone, and she handled the event with such aplomb, I wasn’t missed! (Well, they say I was missed, but we’ll see next month, won’t we!?)
  • Your marketing plan is missing Saturday and Sunday for a reason You heard it here first: I’m officially human; I can’t work seven days per week. At least, not pushing 50 with a chronic illness. Nor, have I discovered this week, do I particularly want to. I’m sure that it’s not going to be completely smooth, this transition to a more balanced lifestyle, but it’s imperative, if for no other reason than I cannot work at all when I become ill or exhausted.

So this week, while I scan the Calendar against my calendar and what, realistically, I think I can accomplish, I’m soliciting advice on balance: what do you do? And how do you do it?

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1 Jim Bursch 05.05.09 at 7:52 am

Ahh, balance. The magical center.

I think there are two place where it is found. Picture a “V” and then picture an upside-down “V” (it looks like a cone).

The upright “V” is like a hole in the ground. The center is at the bottom. We’ll call this, “the bottom,” and it is usually is best hit as soon as possible. The sides are conveniently sloped to assist us.

The cone, on the other hand, has it’s center at the top, and the sides are sloped downward and away from the center.

The best place to be is centered on the top of the cone, like a ball on the tip of the nose of a seal at the circus.

Sometimes when we get off-center, in our desperate desire to get back to the center, we scramble on the sides of the cone. But it’s like scrambling to get up a slippery slide. Sometimes it’s best to let go, and just slide off the cone and find the center at “the bottom.”

The center at “the bottom” often has a way of becoming the center of an entirely new and wonderful cone.

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